FPH Honors Lost Loved Ones Through Winter Memorial Services

In the aftermath of losing a loved one, the waves of grief can feel overwhelming, making the healing journey challenging to navigate. At Faith Presbyterian Hospice (FPH), our compassionate team gently encourages those experiencing grief to discover therapeutic avenues for acknowledging it and cherishing the memories of their loved one. We strive to create a comforting space for remembrance.

On December 14, FPH hosted its annual Winter Memorial, offering solace to more than 100 individuals who gathered at the Spiritual Care Center on the T. Boone Pickens Hospice Center Campus. The event, featuring both a 2 p.m. and a 6:30 p.m. service, became a sanctuary for families seeking to honor and celebrate the lives of those they hold dear.

Inside the Spiritual Care Center, attendees experienced a memorial service filled with messages of hope, prayers, songs and even moments of shared laughter. One particularly poignant moment was when Music Therapist, Alyssa Price, sang “Glitter” by Patrick Droney. (Read the beautiful lyrics below). FPH Chaplain, Jarod Cooper, shared a meaningful message about individual and shared grief, citing the beautiful and tragic story behind the writing of “It Is Well With My Soul”. Jennefer Dixon provided additional music to support the words and prayers shared by FPH Executive Director, Danette Muzic and FPH Chaplains William Zink, Rick Watts and Vimala Thomas.

Following the service, everyone was invited to a reception in the Marnie & Kern Wildenthal Education Center where they received a handmade origami ornament in the shape of a star, with the name of their loved one written on it to take home with them.

This event is a heartfelt initiative, providing a space for everyone to openly share their struggles, express the profound void left by their loved ones and reminisce about the unique qualities that made each person special. It serves as an opportunity for those who might have missed a funeral to gather, grieve and bid their own heartfelt farewells. The essence is not to let go of the person but to embrace their memory warmly. Through these gatherings, FPH supports individuals in coping with grief enabling them to remember their loved ones with honor and carry forward a joyful heart. If you or someone you know is in need of grief support, click here to learn how FPH can provide assistance.

Glitter Lyrics:

String of lights on the door
Welcome back to your life
This is worth living for
There’s so much left in store

And we don’t
Get to choose
Who we get to love
Or who it is we’re gonna lose
Or what breaks our hearts in two

But no one really dies if the love remains
‘Cause nothing that dies really goes away

See grief, it’s just like glitter
It’s hard to brush away
Bright light and it still shimmers
Like it was yesterday
And it falls like confetti
All of the memories explode like a hand grenade
And it’s sweet and it’s bitter
Grief, it’s like glitter
Oh, what a mess it makes
What a mess it makes

Past denial and the rage
The what if and the praying on the hardest days
You accept what you can’t change

But no one really dies if the love remains
Yeah, nothing that dies really goes away

See grief, it’s just like glitter
It’s hard to brush away
Bright light and it still shimmers
Like it was yesterday
And it falls like confetti
All of the memories explode like a hand grenade
And it’s sweet and it’s bitter
Grief, it’s like glitter
Oh, what a mess it makes
What a mess it makes

I think life’s a party
Something you should celebrate
Some people leave early
And others get to stay
And hearts, they burst like fireworks
At the end of the parade

See grief, it’s just like glitter
It’s hard to brush away
Bright light and it still shimmers
Like it was yesterday
And it falls like confetti
All of the memories explode like a hand grenade
And it’s sweet and it’s bitter
Grief, it’s like glitter
Oh, what a mess it makes
What a mess it makes